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By Patience Muia

In the business world, maintaining certain standards of appearance is important. How you present yourself determine how others perceive your reputation, education, intelligence and capabilities. Apart from influencing people, appearance can affect the performance levels of business. In a professional environment, presentation can serve as a basis of creating a positive impression and getting new workers onboard. Afro Textured Hair  Believe me or not, even in this age and day, Afro-textured black hair isn't greeted with open arms in most work places. For example in a work environment that deviate towards conservative policies. However, if you are being discriminated, there is nothing to worry about, and you should know that there are other women like you who are being discriminated because of the same reason. You must agree with me that most dress codes doesn't allow mohawk hairstyles, or hair with unnatural colours. But at the same time, there are dress codes that do not allow women to have locks and braids at work. You must have heard of black women not being hired for a certain job, or being fired because of their braided extensions. Is that fair? No! I don’t think it is. So what should women with natural hair do? Work dress codes are something that you should always keep in mind before choosing a place of work or a hairstyle. So if natural hair is allowed in your workplace, it is good to keep it simple. Don’t let your appearance leave a wrong impression on others, or become a land mine of potential distractions. Make your appearance by trying out some classic skirt-and-suit in a colour of your choice, and put on some accessories that match your suit. Keeping it simple like this might help others appreciate your natural black hair at work.

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1) Introduce yourself

My name is Tekita L. Williams. I am a divorced 42 year old who resides in Byram, MS. I’m a graduate of Mississippi State University where I received my Bachelor & Master degrees. I’ve been employed with Hinds Community College for almost 19 years. I’m an active member of the Beta Delta Omega Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. and I serve as the Nursery Ministry Administrator at my church, Greater Pearlie Grove M. B. Church and sing in the Mass Choir. I love children, love to sing, travel, shop, love listening to a variety of music, enjoy organizing things and value spending time with my family.

2) Describe the moment you were spotted by Hug My Hair.

I first met Jessica when she was a young girl at church. She quickly grew into a woman, went off to college then graduate school and I can remember when I noticed on Facebook she did the big chop and went natural. I decided to follow her journey when I noticed how BEAUTIFUL her hair was at every length. Every single picture she posted, was beautiful! She’s beautiful anyway, but her hair was ALWAYS styled so pretty. I can’t think of a style she’s done that I didn’t like. She has truly been blessed with the gift of styling natural hair. I also noticed how quickly her hair seemed to be growing so I became even more intrigued. At this time, I was in the process of “considering” going natural but I had stopped getting relaxers, I just wasn’t sure I wanted to do a big chop because I have always had long hair and I like my hair with length on me. I continued to follow her journey, reached out to her for hair tips and she became my inspiration for me to continue on my natural journey.She always gave me tips, suggestions, encouragement when I asked and has even styled my hair for me. I still have A LOT to learn about styling my own natural hair, but I LOVE being natural and I love this natural journey!!!

 3) Have you always rocked and loved your curls/kinks/coils? If not, how did you come to embrace your natural hair?

I can say that I have always embraced my natural hair. Initially, because I was working out 5 days a week, I wore braids or buns a lot only because of convenience. Plus, I wanted my hair to grow out more because as we all know, natural hair shrinks and I wasn’t used to my hair drawing up so short. So I had to get used to that on me, but I wasn’t trying to hide my hair nor was I ashamed of it, I just had to learn how to work with my hair in its natural state . I had my relaxed hair routine down to a science and wanted to have this natural hair on lock too! Once I learned that I could spray water on my hair mixed with an oil and go in the mornings if I wanted too, that was even more convenient for me. So I REALLY embraced it even more!

 

4) How would you describe your hair texture?

My hair is VERY THICK, but also very soft. I would say my hair is curly/coily I guess. I’ve never understood the high type thing I hear Naturals talking about. I don’t know what “type” my hair would be considered, but my roots are very straight and my curls/coils are very tight. However, the very back of my hair, the curls are very loose and if I brush my hair up, it looks bone straight while the rest of my hair has a wave pattern going around my head….LOL.

 

5) Tell us one “Do” and one “Don’t” for your hair type.

Well, like I just stated, I don’t know what my hair “type” would be in the natural world, but I have learned that my hair LOVES water and moisture. It will perk up and curl up immediately when I spray anything liquid on it. So I would say DO use a lot of water and keep your hair moisturized and trimmed. My “Don’t” for my hair would be not to let it dry after you shampoo/co-wash without detangling because it will tangle and fast and make you very frustrated trying to detangle it. I have to work fast because my hair has always tangled very easily even as a child.

  6) What advice would you give to someone considering going natural?

I would tell them to be patient. Hair will grow, but you have to accept that your hair might not grow as fast or long as others. I would also tell them to never compare their hair to others. GOD gave us the head of hair and grade of hair HE wanted us to have. There is NOTHING we can do about what type/texture of natural hair we have. We have to embrace OUR HAIR and our texture whether it is curly, coily, kinky or as some might say nappy. It is what it is. LOVE what you have on your head and learn what works for YOU. All products and styles we MIGHT like just MIGHT NOT work for us and we have to be OK with that. Embrace what does work and enhance that!

 

6) What advice would you give to someone considering going natural?

I would tell them to be patient. Hair will grow, but you have to accept that your hair might not grow as fast or long as others. I would also tell them to never compare their hair to others. GOD gave us the head of hair and grade of hair HE wanted us to have. There is NOTHING we can do about what type/texture of natural hair we have. We have to embrace OUR HAIR and our texture whether it is curly, coily, kinky or as some might say nappy. It is what it is. LOVE what you have on your head and learn what works for YOU. All products and styles we MIGHT like just MIGHT NOT work for us and we have to be OK with that. Embrace what does work and enhance that!

    7) How do you love to wear your hair?

Since I’m still trying to learn how to style my own natural hair, my favorite would be the puff. I Love pulling my hair up in a puff because it’s so easy and convenient. Not to mention, in the mornings I just spray water/oil on it and GO!! I also love wearing an afro. Since Jessica thought me how to do my afro, I LOVE rocking my big hair!!

 

8 ) How often do you wash your hair and what products do you use?

I co-wash and deep condition my hair weekly. I will shampoo it once or twice a month at the most UNLESS I feel I have product build up. Then I will shampoo it as I feel I need to. Whether I shampoo or co-wash, I always deep condition, put a plastic bag on it and sit under the dryer or use my thermal wrap. I also use a leave in conditioner. I LOVE shea moisture products and the coconut line by Proclaim. I also use coconut, argan & Jamaican black Castrol oil. I use all of these products regularly. But I am a product junkie so I will try anything to see if it will work for me.

 9) Describe your worst hair day.

I think my worse hair day was when I attempted to do a twist out on wet hair and didn’t know what I was doing. At that time, I hadn’t learned that my hair doesn’t dry well over night wet. I woke up with my hair just as wet as I went to bed the night before. I got ready to take my hair down and it was still very wet and it was time for me to leave for work. I was thinking, “Oh my Lord….what am I going to do with all of this hair because it looks a mess!!” THANK GOD for a band because I scooped it up in a puff and went on my way.

 10) Your Twitter/Facebook/Instagram pages (if applicable) are?

Twitter: @Japaaka Facebook: Tekita L. Williams Instagram: @Japaaka

11) Website/blog address (if applicable)

Not Applicable

Posted by HMH Blogger By Patience Muia The “natural hair professionalism” has been a common debate topic especially in black beauty industry. It is true that there is still natural hair discrimination at workplace. Some women have been successful in their careers with their natural hair while others have failed, and are constantly blaming natural hair for their failure. Even if discriminations exists the way it does, women should not conclude that natural hair is unprofessional. Here are a few reasons that can be used to justify this statement. Natural Hair is a Naturally Occurring Bodily Characteristic The reality is that the skin of a black women or the shape of an Asian woman isn't considered as unprofessional. Hair, skin and shape of the eye are all natural physical characteristics. If someone insists that natural hair is unprofessional then he or she should be able to explain to us why the skin is not. It can be Styled Conservatively Although afros look amazing and lovely, all women with natural hair know that it cannot be allowed at a workplace. Depending on your work environment, you might be sometimes forced to pull your hair down your face. You can also be in a workplace where styles such as twist, curly fros and braid outs are considered professional.

It Breeds Paranoia If you fail to get a certain job, it is not healthy to walk around saying that you failed to get the job just because you are natural. There are other reasons that might have caused the failure. You might be unkempt, or you may have behaved unprofessionally during the interview. There are Numerous Successful Natural Hair Professionals It doesn’t matter where you are living or what you are facing, you can be a natural hair professional. Haven’t you met black women rocking pumps and suits with elegant natural hair styles?

Posted by Lil

Want A Big Fro? Here’s How You Get It

 

Written By: Jessica Simien of JessicaSimien.com

One of my trademark styles is a huge fro. Typically I’m a protective style wearing natural but every now and then, I like to show off the hair that I work so hard to maintain – and nothing says ‘I love my natural hair’ like a big, beautiful fro! Many naturals believe that you must have long hair to achieve a fro and that couldn’t be further from the truth. At any length and with most textures, with a few simple tricks you can have a big fro of your own. Check out the steps I take to rock my fro below. Preparation If you’re planning to wear a fro that will stay huge the entire day, you must prepare at least two or three days in advance. For instance, if I want to wear my hair big and beautiful on Friday I usually start working on it Tuesday or Wednesday. Style With a Fro in Mind After deciding what day I want to wear my hair in a fro, I then style with my fro in mind. I usually flat twist my hair in a circular pattern and lock the ends with a little cream or gel and roll them with perm rods or small flexi-rods. My Day 1 hair always comes out with tight, short curls and that’s fine (think about the end result). Just rock your shrinkage and get your outfit ready to compliment that fro you’ll have in a few days! Night-time Hair Technique is Important In order to achieve a big fro, your hair has to get bigger by the day. As crazy as it sounds, it’s actually what you do at night that matters most. My fro styles turn out the best when I use a technique called banding. Basically, I divide my curls (they haven’t become a fro yet) into about five total sections. I make ponytails that remind me of little girls with puffy ponytails and then I put elastics (some people use rubber bands) around my ponytails very loosely – loose is the key to maintaining the curly ends – and wrap my satin scarf loosely around my head. I personally don’t use rubber bands or elastics with the metal clamp on them. I like just plain elastic bands.  Watch Your Hair Get Bigger Each Day Your hair will get bigger and bigger as the days go by if you use the night-time technique above and my natural hair secret weapon – an Afro-pik! Use the pik to tease your roots and stretch them out a bit. This will also add length to your hair.  Share your tips to achieving a big fro in our comments section. Happy Styling!

 

Posted by HMH Blogger By Patience Muia Taking joy in living is a woman’s best cosmetic and beauty is a lease from nature, but natural hair is my definition of beauty. Whenever I see un-relaxed hair I just can’t resist starring at it in admiration. I don’t know why or how but I just find it hard to keep my eyes off natural hair. I have to say that the reason we make excuses about natural hair is simply because we choose to be afraid and think that our natural hair is un attractive. Living in a society where straight hair is seen as more beautiful than kinky hair, we are not to blame but it is all a very wrong perception. There are people who in the day of today who still consider natural hair as un acceptable in the society. One man’s food is another man’s poison.

Natural hair is often termed as unkempt, unprofessional, ugly and so much more. But worry less for the world is changing really fast. So many women are opting togo natural standing strong against all the odds and making the choice to transform from relaxers, weaves and processed hair to being a natural beauty. Alarge part of the society now hire natural haired professionals along side others.

Natural hair is a journey of confidence and setting one’s own standards. As long as you know that you are beautiful and you are confident about your natural hair it should not worry you much about what others think about your natural hair. Beauty comes from within. Why go for natural hair;

·        No more relaxers so I don’t have to fear that I will get scalp burns while processing my hair. ·        Relaxed hair thins out as it grows unlike natural hair that can be pinned into a curly ponyt ail. ·        Natural hair grows uniformly unlike relaxed hair that gets two textures as it grows. With natural hair you can embrace growth and not fear growth like the case with relaxed hair. ·        Natural hair guarantees long healthy hair because it protects the ends of your hair unlike the relaxed hair that thins out as it grows. ·        With natural hair you are free from dry scalp because you explore a wide range of products and wear new styles any time as desired. ·        Natural hair salons costs significantly less cash and time. It gives you freedom from salons unlike the case with relaxed hair where you visit the salon every two weeks. Natural hair is beautiful and you are beautiful too. Do not allow yourself to be easily deceived. It is the right choice, it is the way to go with no regrets.